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i find Benny n Alan pretty fun duo to hang out with, but i really hate it when they start judging!

eg. "Mich, u shld be more relaxed, dun be so conscious / cautious".

or... "Veen, do u express better when u write than write? so if tt's the case, is that the true you?" etc etc. too many instances to quote.

hello...!!! what the hell...!!!

maybe it is me... one of my pet peeves is that, i hate people judging!

i enjoy hanging out, drinking, talking abt impersonal topics. but sorry to say, i am blardy touchy when it becomes too personal. it annoys me... (big time!)

i like Michele the way she is! the conscious, reserved person. so what about a few more years of societal interaction? do you mean to say that, after working in the society for the next 7 years, you'll be more unrestricted with yourself? you will act more carefree?

it's abt the characters, personality, family upbringing etc...
so why judge pple and try to mould them into who u think they shld be?

to me, friends accept each other as who they are. immoral acts n despicable behaviors aside. that's unacceptable. but in terms of personality, i don't think we should try changing pple, eh?

look at MENSA, we accepted who each of us are... Choon is so quiet, but is he not relaxed? i don't think so. we appreciate who each other are. the good, the bad; the shy, the flambouyant. coz that's love.

and yes, abt speaking and writing. i speak my mind, but what i say can sound rather incoherent to others. as i write, i can sort out my thoughts n express myself logically. my point is this: whether i choose to speak or write, the content stays the same. it's still unaltered. my message stil is put across in tt blunt way. and that is me.

i am the only person who knows myself best. no one else does. and there's alwiz the alterego tt comes together with the true me. i can be blunt at times, cautious at others, sweet tongued when i need to. it depends on who am i with, where and when. then, which is the real me? all 3 are.

that's also one reason why i didn't consider Benny as one of my choices of a potential-boyfriend. he's so gonna annoy the hell out of me! i find it okay to think abt philosophical qns... think abt the various society, culture n behaviors.... it's fun to analyze n offer different perspectives (with scientific evidence and methodology)... but, i don't tink it is right to judge others or impose your views on others especially on personal matters.

posted by Veen @ 01:02